"We found your mom. We found her." Patrick Tarin, Texas

Patrick Tarin from Amarillo, Texas was raised by his paternal aunt and uncle. His father died in a car accident when Patrick was 10, but he knew nothing about his mother and the rest of his family.

One day, he came across a letter written by his father that turned his world upside down.

His father had written the letter to his sister — Patrick’s aunt — explaining that his relationship with Patrick’s mother was tense, and he decided to leave her and to take Patrick with him, without Patrick’s mother’s consent. In other words, Patrick had been kidnapped from his mother.

In the letter, Patrick’s father also mentioned a daughter of his ex-wife’s from a previous marriage. All Patrick knew about her was that her name was Debbie.

With so little to go on, he didn’t have much hope of finding his mother, but he tried everything in his power to find her: research, genealogy, DNA testing — at one point he even hired a private investigator. All these efforts turned up dry.

Patrick was close to losing hope when he heard that MyHeritage was also offering DNA tests. After so many years of searching for his family, Patrick’s expectations were low, but he decided to buy a kit anyway.

About a month later, Patrick’s wife Marie — who manages Patrick’s MyHeritage account — checked his DNA results and could not believe her eyes when a match came up for a niece named Jessica Salinas.

Knowing that Patrick would be devastated by another disappointment, Marie decided to contact the niece without telling him, to share some details they knew about Patrick’s family. According to Marie, “Not even three minutes later, she messaged me back and said that she recognized the story details. I still wanted some kind of proof, so I asked for a picture of Patrick’s mother, and Jessica sent it to me.”

The woman in the photograph looked exactly like Patrick.

Marie began shaking and crying, and Patrick, who had been sitting on the couch, came over to find out what was wrong.

I told him, ‘We found your mom. We found her. Here is a picture of your mom.’

Patrick sank back onto the couch, overcome with emotion.

Debbie told Patrick that she and their mother, Elisabeth Aaronson, had been searching for Patrick just as desperately all those years. When Patrick first disappeared, Elisabeth had been told that her ex-husband would bring Patrick back to her at a certain time at a certain park. She waited for them there, but they never showed up. She came back to that park for days, weeks, and months with Patrick’s picture, asking passersby if they had seen him… to no avail. The months turned to years and the years, decades. Unfortunately, just a year before Patrick made contact, Elisabeth passed away. “If it wasn’t for MyHeritage, Patrick’s dream of learning more about his mother probably wouldn’t have happened,” says Marie.

Though Patrick was unable to see his mother again, he did discover a whole family he hadn’t known about. Patrick found out he had 8 half-siblings, 5 of whom were still living. Raised as an only child, Patrick is delighted to get to know his new half-siblings.

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  • Elaine F Barley

    November 7, 2019

    I would like to know George Louis Fiester”s father . I’m Elaine Yvonne Fiester Barley. George is my father.

  • Re Thomas

    November 8, 2019

    My brother served in Thailand during the Vietnam Nam war. He had two sons, twins, one of whom passed away, in Germany, with a German woman, in 1970. I have been looking for him for years. I always wonder if there is a man somewhere looking for his father. God only knows.

  • Janet M Bell

    November 8, 2019

    lovely. How do I go about finding my birth mother and family? I have some info, have searched, but not found.

  • Amy

    November 8, 2019

    I enjoyed the stories.
    I have met Clive Levin who is a 2nd cousin to my husband.
    Clive was adopted. It was a closed adoption and his adoptive parents refuse to even tell him what country he was adopted in. One time his mother told him they adopted him in the U.S in Maryland. She then told him no they adopted him in South Africa.
    Clive always new he was adopted and it never bothered him until he had a son of his own. That is when he decided he wanted to know where he came from.
    He was raised in Johannesburg South Africa and now resides in Bondi Beach Australia.
    I was wondering is there anyway My Heritage could help him?

  • Hazel Urwin

    November 9, 2019

    I would LOVE to find who my paternal grandfather is and that side of the family, my brother had a DNA test done but I’m not sure how to go about finding who is from that side in his matches, is someone able to point me in the right direction on how?

  • Margaret Kenyon

    December 2, 2019

    My aunt had a son in Iowa City he was given up in adoption she never married. I wonder where he is and if we have cousins out there.

  • Amanda Robinson

    April 22, 2020

    Margaret Kenyon
    I have got a friend who lives in Iowa and he is adopted I was wondering if his name is Alfred